Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of John Dale with the following comment:
I am trying to sort out my Dales.Listers ets, particulary two Jackson Dales one born 1841 the other 1842,,My jackson died 1879, the other jackson who died later is not my direct relative, but must be close, trying to make positive both their parents and grand parents, any info would be brill, if i didnt live in the isle of man I would be around looking..I may be able to help you on line indexing etc by the way, although not done it before.my jackson died 38 lord street linthorpe23rd july1879 with a janet winson present at the death with R atkinson registrar, and I find the Atkinsons in my tree as well..maybe you can help me between these two jacksons and their parents